HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR SUCCESS
#SuccessCode Series- Focus: THE BIG PICTURE
“Last week on the #SuccessCode Series, I gave insight to
takes to re-write your
life’s story” and shared
principles that will help
change your current life
situation; this is the
3. Success is what you attract by the person you become. People attract what they are; not what they want.
Everyone has what is referred to as ‘a default future’; which is purely experiential and all couched in our beliefs, thoughts, feelings and actions.
Being is the first cause in the action formula. This can be a little tough for beginners. For example,
A state of hunger causes thoughts of hunger.
A state of feeling wealthy or healthy similarly causes wealth and good health to show up quickly; so the fastest way to create is to simply be, right now. This is contrary to the way we’ve always known.
We are used to designing goals and just working at it without defining who we want to be by the outcome.
It’s even worse when these goals arise from the herd effect of wanting what is in vogue or a new-found gold mine. That’s why the need for vision is crucial.
A vision of who you’ll like to be when you are married; what success means to you when you view the end from the beginning; what kind of a father you dream to be to your kids; how you’d wish your subordinates relate with you when you become a manager; a view of how your friends will perceive you when you move to the top; …notice the theme running through all of them.
“The greatest value is not what you acquire but what you become”.
There’s a huge difference between owning a million pounds and being a millionaire!
In practical terms, it’s all that you’ve learned and all that you’ve become to reach the status of a millionaire that’s valuable, not the million pounds; which probably explains why 80% of lottery winners go broke in 2 years.
Beware of what you become in the pursuit of that which you want because what tastes good in the mouth sometimes turns sour in the belly.
“Guard what goes into your mind because that determines who you will become”.
Begin to question why you do so many things and work with intention because anticipated outcomes tend to guide planned actions.
Take some time from now to periodically think anew. It is believed that at least 80% of mankind hardly pauses to think. We’re too busy doing the daily routine stuff, junk and all, that don’t just add up.
Your special God-given talent usually guides you to your purpose. Find and get to know your purpose in life and then with passion organize all your activities around it.
Have a big picture; a compelling story will from there emerge. What you hope to be is more like the essence that precedes form in creation.
Your spirit usually speaks to your mind through feelings and intuition. If you are not excited about an outcome, it’s doubtful if your energy or commitment levels will bring it into existence.
If you are not emotionally prepared to be a good, loving and present husband, then stay away from marriage, at least meanwhile.
If you believe that great wealth will corrupt your spirituality, then hoping to be wealthy will not work for you.
If you don’t feel like your health condition is going to improve, 100 specialist doctors cannot help your situation.
“Money will make you more of what you already are”.
I have a friend who thought that riches would make him feel safe and generous. Now that he has become a heavy hitter, he’s now scared and withdrawn; he’s afraid he may not be able to sustain it. Isn’t that crazy?
Feel your way to your dreams; for that’s what will ignite the passion and energy to fulfill them.
Some people find faults like they are being rewarded for that. Stop listening to what you’re told you cannot do and pay more attention to what you can, must and should do based on your own big picture; not another’s design for your life.
Remember that if you don’t like who you are and where you are, don’t worry about it because you’re not stuck either with who you are or where you are.
You can grow.
You can change.
You can be more than you currently are.
Affirm positively and your conviction grows. You can never win from a poor image of self.
“When you choose to be pleasant and positive in the way you treat others, you have also chosen, in most cases, how you want to be treated by others”.
Don’t allow criticism to distract you because the only taste of success some people have is when they take a bite out of you.
The time will never be perfect to start and failure is an event not you; they are inevitable.
Your intuition should be your guide as you learn useful lessons.
Join me again tomorrow, Wednesday, on my next #SuccessCode Series as I share the FOURTH principle that will help change your current situation in life:
To your dream life!
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